Isa: please help me to be less of a jackass to the dude i am trying to bang.  PLEASE.

Kelly: Do you have a photo of the young man in question?  And/or a brief description of his interests?

(Isa sends a link to the Facebook page of the gentleman under discussion.)

Isa: also now i feel like a stalker for looking up those photos.  is that more or less normal than punching somebody?

Kelly: Internet stalking is now an acceptable part of the dating process.  Punching’s uses in the dating environment have been eroding for years.  You’re fine.